If you are pregnant or in a family expecting a new child then you have to learn that it is okay to have mixed feelings. Many people will enjoy the fact that they get to hold a precious and innocent creature in their arms, while others will hate the fact that because of this new kid dad won't want to play with me anymore, or mom won't pay me any attention. The other children may also get angry because they will think that this new child will take time out of their day if they have to watch it.
It is important that you keep an eye on the other children when they are around a new baby. This is because you never know what to expect. You need to make sure they treat the new baby gently and with care. If you see any signs of aggression it is important that you never leave your children alone with it. You really cannot have any babysitter that you do not completely 100% trust around your baby. This could even save your baby's life. With new babies comes much responsibility. Hopefully if you are a first timer, you are not having twins or triplets.That would be a problem.
Times are getting hard, and a new baby can get in the way of your dreams if you were not prepared for it. Once you see your baby though, you most likely completely change your mind. It is definitely a feeling of love.

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