The Benefits of Dressing Appropriately

The Bible tells of a time when Queen Esther needed to appear before her husband, the king. However, such an unbidden appearance could be a capital offense! No doubt Esther fervently prayed for God's help. But she also paid attention to her appearance by "dressing up royally"-in a manner suitable for the occasion! And "as soon as the king saw Esther the queen standing in the courtyard, she gained favor in his eyes."
Your being dressed in an attractive but modest manner might help you to make a good impression at a job interview. Vicki L. Baum, director of a Career Development Center, observes: "Some women get confused when they go for an interview. They think it's like going on a date, and they look seductive."The results? "It takes away from your professionalism." She advises against wearing "things that are tight of suggestive."
Young men, too, should strive to wear well arranged clothing when job hunting. John T. Molloy notes that businessmen "have their hair combed and their shoes shined. And they expect the same of other men."
Immodest attire, though, can damage your relationships with others. Psychology Today referred to a survey taken among adolescents that showed "a low cut top, shorts, tight jeans, and or no bra" would likely be interpreted by males as a sexual come-on. One young man confessed: "I personally find it rather hard to think only pure thoughts about younger women when I see the way they dress." Modest attire allows people to appreciate your inner qualities. Ifyou're not sure a certain outfit is modest, ask your parents for advice.