An Active Interest In Others

Jesus Christ built friendships that were so strong that his friends were willing to die for him. Why? For one thing Jesus cared for people. He reached out and helped others. He 'wanted to' get involved. Truly, having an interest in others is the first step toward making friends.
A youth named David, for example, says he has had success in making friends because of "having a real love for people and taking an active interest in others." He adds: "One of the biggest things is to know the person's name. Others are often impressed that you cared enough to remember their name. Because of this they may share some experience or problem with your and the friendship starts to build."
This does not mean that you have to be a hand pumping extrovert. Jesus was "lowly in heart," not flamboyant or showy. It is sincere interest in others that attracts them. Often the simplest things, such as sharing a meal together or assisting someone with a task, can serve to deepen a friendship.