Getting on with your Life

You may likewise find it helpful to confide in someone, instead of isolating yourself. Let your parents know just how you feel, what your fears and anxieties are. Mature Christians can also help. Some people that have little or no support from the family after their families are torn apart from a divorce need to seek help elsewhere. For Keith, the Christian congregation became his family.
Above all, you can find a hearing ear with your heavenly Father, the "Hearer of Prayer." A youth named Paul recalls what helped him get over his parents divorce. He prayed all of the time and always felt that Jehovah was a real person.
After a divorce, things may never be the same. This does not mean, though, that your life cannot be fruitful and a happy one. The Bible says do not loiter at your business. Yes, instead of allowing yourself to become immobilized by grief, hurt, or anger, get on with your life! Get involved in your schoolwork. Pursue a hobby. Have "plenty to do in the work of the Lord.
It will take work, determination, and the passing of time. But eventually, the breakup of your parents' marriage will no longer be the dominant thing in your life.